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Sunday, June 29, 2014

2014 - Week 26

On Monday, with last week’s “all-clear”, I started up my new diet and exercise plan. I have a series of programs by a trainer that I really like, Lindsey Brinn, and I’m starting off with her “Post-Natal Boot Camp” program. It worked really well for me in the past, so I’m hoping to see the same results. As far as dieting, I won’t necessarily be restricting myself, just watching what I eat and making some better choices. Now, we’ll have to see how things go. I’ll have to first see how my foot holds up. It’s been 7 weeks since the break, but it’s still fairly sensitive and I don’t want to risk any permanent damage. And, we’ll have to see how my milk supply handles the changes. I won’t risk nursing, and eventually pumping, issues to lose weight. For today, I got my workout in, even with the 3 girls home, so go me! The big girls spent most of the morning playing dress-up and acting like princesses (seriously, TOO much diva in our house!). After naps, we all made our way up to the park to play for a while. Eliza actually took a little snooze (with the help of a pacifier, for a change!), so we were able to stay for quite a while. I’m not sure if I’ve posted about it at all, but none of our girls have taken a pacifier. With Olivia, we thought it was our choice to be pacifier free. I never wanted to battle trying to take it away, so we weren’t going to allow her to have one. Turns out, she really just never needed one, she was so dang easy. Amelia was a HUGE comfort nurser, but we didn’t want to cause any of the dreaded nipple confusion, so we withheld the pacifier. Eventually, we had to start giving her a bottle of pumped milk in the evenings to break up her cluster feeding. That went well, so we thought we’d give in and try a pacifier as well to help her learn to self soothe a little bit. No matter how much we tried, she would not take it. Sometimes I could slip her off the breast and onto the pacifier swiftly enough to get her to sleep, but that was about it. With Eliza, we’ve pretty much been trying to get her to take a pacifier from week 1. I could tell immediately she was going to be another comfort nurser. We tried the soothies (which it seems EVERY baby takes), for quite a while, to no avail. We’re now trying Avent, and it’s going a little better, but it’s still a struggle. I know that in the long run, just like with Amelia, we’ll one day be very happy if she doesn’t take a pacifier, to never fight the battle of taking it away, but it’s still frustrating. Nevertheless, she let me hold it in her mouth long enough to doze off for a while, and that’s really what I want it for. The rest of the evening was pretty standard…dinner, baseball and bedtime.



Tuesday was a rough day. I woke up just completely exhausted, my entire body ached from yesterday’s workout, my head was completely stuffed up (PLEASE be an allergy thing and NOT a cold that I could pass on to baby) and my eye is hurting pretty bad, and seems a little swollen. Again, hopefully an allergy thing that will go away. To top it off, Eliza was NOT a happy camper today. She was absolutely miserable, all day long, with nothing but cat naps. Not sure what is going on with her, but hopefully it passes quickly. It ended up being a very, VERY long day. But, I did get my workout in (barely), so that is a major plus in my book! While I had myself a quick, healthy dinner, Christian picked up food for the rest of the house because I was way too exhausted.

Wednesday was not as tough as Tuesday, but still not great. I was feeling a little better, but Eliza is back to nursing pretty much all day, and was really fussy every time I tried to feed her. Again, I just barely got my workout in today, but of course, I’m starting to worry that her new nursing issues are related. It could be a growth spurt though, so we’ll see how the next few days go. I picked the big girls up today with a little picnic in hand and we met Christian at baseball. We quickly made our way home after baseball for the premier of Big Brother. This is absolutely my all-time favorite show, so the wait for it to come back every summer is so painful. When we first bought our house and signed up for cable we had some movie channels for a free trial period. We had Showtime, which showed “Big Brother After Dark” where you could watch the “houseguests” for a few hours late at night…I became obsessed, I’d be up WAY too late, it was ridiculous. Yeah, it’s sad, but I don’t care. I love this show, and that was my excitement for the day!

LOVE our sunflowers!

Thursday was again a successful day in the workout department! Yes! It was the hardest day by far though. I was cuddled up with Eliza in bed, trying to get her down for a nap, and definitely did not want to get up when she finally dozed off. Who wants to leave a cuddly bed with a super cuddly baby to work out?!? Not this lady. You better believe I crawled right back in once I finished cooling down afterwards! My aches and pains are going away, and I’m feeling much better than I did when the week started, but my eye has continued to swell, and is getting pretty bad. I took a Claritin yesterday, and it did help clear my head up, but didn’t seem to help with the swelling at all, so I don’t think it’s allergy related. We’ll see how things go tomorrow, I may be heading to Urgent Care tomorrow night if it doesn’t start looking better. It hit me today that Amelia’s birthday/party is in a month. A MONTH. I haven’t done any planning or preparing, which is so very unlike me. Time to start cracking the whip and get this thing planned! So, between feedings and baby play time, I made some party invitations up and sent them to Christian to print off at his work for me. Just have to get them addressed and sent out, it’s going to be here before I know it!

My Throwback photo this week, in honor of getting Olivia's baseball pictures this week, a comparison to my first t-ball picture. SO crazy.

Resting with by babe. She makes it hard to get out of bed!

Friday was a pretty rough day. My eye is definitely no better…still very painful and actually almost swollen shut now. The big girls were home with us today, so it was tough trying to handle everything, but we just pushed through as much as we could. Christian always works really late on Friday, so luckily my mom came over to watch the girls so I could get to Urgent Care right when they opened. I was going to bring Eliza with me, thinking on a Friday night, in the summer, it shouldn’t be too bad, but my mom said it should be fine. They were going to walk up to the park, and Eliza likes to be outside, so I figured she’d survive for a short time. I arrived at Urgent Care a bit after they opened and the waiting room was pretty much empty. But, I was still told it was going to be about an hour wait. WHAT?! Apparently two kids had come in needing stiches, and the Urgent Care nurse had not shown up yet, so everything else was basically on hold. I was so mad, but what can you do. They finally brought me back, checked me in, and after another short wait, the doctor finally came in. After a quick exam, she checked out my eye and said it appeared I have a scratch on my eye, and it’s causing an infection. She started me on antibiotics, which was also quite an ordeal, and sent me on my way. I cannot have the penicillin line, and breastfeeding limits the medication I can take even more, so it took a while for her to decide what I can take most safely. By then, the pharmacy at the clinic was closed, so I had to have the prescription sent to Target. I was getting too nervous about being away from Eliza, so I decided to head home and make Christian pick up my prescription on his way home. I relieved my mom just as she had gotten home and changed Eliza’s diaper…and just as she started getting fussy and hungry. She left, I fed the baby and we settled in for the night. Christian grabbed some dinner and stopped at Target on his way home, and we were all pretty exhausted by bedtime.



On Saturday, we were up and ‘em bright and early. We had breakfast, got ready and packed up our bags for the day. First up, we were off to swim class…my first outing with my horrible swollen eye. I was getting plenty of creeped out looks, which was pretty awesome. While is still looked horrible, I will say, it was already starting to feel better. Thankfully this clears everything up quickly. After swim class and showering off, we were all off to Game Day. Game Day, as I’ve explained in years past, is our annual “family reunion”, where my Dad’s side of the family gets together. We have a croquet tournament, play other various outdoor games, eat lots of junk food, order pizza for dinner and spend the day laughing, chatting and catching up. Eliza did really well…she actually let a few people hold her, and she slept quite a bit. She LOVES being outside. The big girls had a blast playing with all of the other kids, and were beyond exhausted by the time we left. It was our first Game Day without our grandparents, which felt pretty strange. You could definitely feel something missing from the day, and it was kind of the big white elephant in the room for all of us. But, it was still great to get together. All of us cousins got to go through some of our grandparents’ stuff, which was really nice. The girls each found a few things to bring home, and I collected some holiday decorations my Grandma had made. Just a few things to remember them by. I spent a little time inside nursing Eliza, but we did give her one of her first ever bottles in the evening to give me a little break, and tide her over for a while. She ended up falling asleep around 7:00, just as the tournament was coming to an end. Also just as some storms started rolling in. We packed the van up, said our goodbyes and made our way home. Amelia passed out on the way home and went right to bed. Eliza was still asleep when we arrived home to, so we let her be. We let Olivia watch a video while I unpacked our travel bag. She was off to bed, Christian passed out on the couch and I folded a load of laundry while watching some TV, waiting for Eliza to wake up. By 10:30 she was still knocked out, and I was getting exhausted, so I took a risk and went to lay down and catch a few z’s. I woke up around 1:00, and she was still fast asleep, and I was VERY uncomfortable, so I decided to pump and hope she didn’t wake up right away. I ended up pumping 8oz’s, by far the most I have every pumped in a sitting, and made my way back to bed. She didn’t end up waking up until around 4:00. I couldn’t believe it! Apparently some fresh air really does a baby good!




The trinkets the girls collected from my Grandparents' house.

Sunday was a pretty good day. After a great night of sleep, and a late morning, I was feeling pretty refreshed for the first time in quite a while. Christian whipped up some breakfast, while I spent most of the day doing laundry. Christian and the big girls helped his Dad work on his car for a while, and then were off to our friend Mariano’s house to go swimming with Olivia’s BFF. Apparently my invitation got lost in the mail, so I spent the day with little Eliza. She hasn’t been napping well lately, which has been pretty frustrating. And she’s still been having some trouble with nursing…nursing a lot and getting really fussy and irritated while eating. While I thought it could be coincidence or a growth spurt, I think it has to be related to my diet and exercise changes. I’ve decided that I need to just scale it back, and give it a break for now. While I want nothing more than to shed this weight and get in shape, it’s just not worth the risk of losing/decreasing my supply to obtain. I just need to make good choices about what I’m eating, and stop worrying about calories. And just do some walking and light activity for now, and understand that I have plenty of time to focus on the weight once I’m done nursing. The girls came home from swimming bouncing off the walls and crabby as can be. We grilled and ate dinner, and by then, I was so over their fighting and bad attitudes, they were sent to bed. Ugh! It was not a pleasant end to the week, but hopefully the new week brings some cheerier attitudes!

The Garden, when planted, and today. Growing like crazy!

Tomatoes

Cucumbers

Zucchini

Tomatillos

Strawberries

Pumpkins

Our beautiful lilies, my favorite!

Until Next Week XOXO

Sunday, June 22, 2014

2014 - Week 25

Monday started off pretty low key. The big girls had spent the night at my in-laws’, Christian was off to work, so it was just me and the babe to start the week. We had a pretty typical day, hanging out around the house. Lots of nursing, little napping. The usual. Christian picked the girls up after work, we had some dinner, played for a while and it wasn’t long before it was time for bed. Christian and the girls don’t usually get home until around 6:15/6:30, so we don’t have a ton of family time during the week right now. The weather is taking a little turn right now…it rained most of the day (canceling baseball), and some pretty big storms rolled in overnight. Thankfully, the storms didn’t seem to bother the girls.

On Tuesday I had my 6 week post-partum check-up. Good times. Everything went well though. I checked-out fine, and got the all clear to resume all activity. I’m due for my annual in a few months, so we’ll be discussing some birth control options at that point. I’ve always just been on the pill (and the mini pill while nursing), but I’m getting pretty sick of taking that, and really don’t want to do that forever. We don’t intend on having any more children, but I wasn’t ready to make that permanent when Eliza was born…though I’m now kind of wishing I had. I’m still hoping over time I can convince Christian to get the big snip, but we really haven’t had the discussion yet. So, for now, I’m considering doing the IUD, though I’ve heard some horror stories about it. Only time will tell at this point. Once home from the appointment, the babe and I went on a nice long walk around the neighborhood, and I did some cleaning around the house. Christian picked the big girls up, we had some dinner, and then our friends Sara and Bella stopped over to chat and play for bit before bed. Storms rolled in again overnight…nothing better than sleeping to a storm (as long as everybody sleeps!)!

Our sunflowers are coming in, LOVE them!


Wednesday was pretty good day. I spent the morning doing some cleaning around the house. My BFF Kari stopped over with her kids for a belated birthday lunch…Chipotle, delish! It was fun catching up with her, we don’t see each other nearly enough, and it sucks, but it makes our visits that much better. Though our girls are about 4.5 months apart, I’m pretty sure Eliza will be catching up to her little Addie in no time at this point! This afternoon, Eliza and I went on another long walk, before picking the big girls up and heading to baseball. Luckily today’s rain held off until after the game. We’re getting soaked!!

Future BFF's!


She's such a helpful big sister this time around

Thursday brought even MORE rain…we’re already close to reaching the June record for rain, with plenty of June left to go. It’s been a wet, wet spring, and the weather is reeking havoc across the state right now. Mudslides, landslides, flooding all over the states. Tornadoes breaking out. Pretty crazy. Luckily for us we live on plains, not too close to any water, so we don’t deal with any flooding really. And being close to the city tornadoes are pretty rare, but I feel just horrible watching the news reports of how it effects everybody else. Eliza and I used our walk to head over to Walmart today to do some grocery shopping. Other than that, it was a pretty quiet day around the house.

A momentarily relief while she momentarily takes a pacifier

On Friday, all of the girls were home with me. We had some breakfast, did some playing, watched some movies. Eliza and Amelia took their naps wile I watched some TV and Olivia watched her videos for quiet time. After their naps, we all went up to the park for a while, until Eliza decided it was time to go home of course. Christian brought home some dinner and we all had a pretty quiet night at home. The end of a pretty quiet week.

Happy baby at the park








I don't know why, but our marigolds usually die off pretty quickly. This year they look great!

Saturday started off with a quick breakfast and all of us heading off to swim class. I’m not liking these separate classes at all, so I’m hoping I register early enough next session so we can avoid this. Trust me, I’ve already checked, but registration is not up yet. Dangit. We all stopped into Target for a few things after class, then made our way home for lunch and naps. After naps, the big girls got to spend some time outside, running through the sprinklers and basking in the warmth (finally). After some play, dinner and relaxing, the girls were all off to bed, one by one, and Christian went out to celebrate his friend Lorenzo’s birthday. I wish I had the energy to stay up and enjoy my time home alone…maybe one day!

Sunday was our first attempt at spending the day out and about with the baby in tote. We had some breakfast, packed up our bags, and we were off on our annual strawberry picking outing. Typically, we pick strawberries and hit up a beach after for a picnic and some swimming. Unfortunately, this year, it was raining, again, and it was the only day we could fit in strawberry picking with our friends. Not long after we arrived and started picking, it started raining and we had to make a dash for the van to wait it out. We were able to finish though, and  got lots of yummy berries. Instead of the beach, we made our way to a park down the road with a covered picnic area, ate, and the kids played in the rain for a while. They were so wet and dirty and gross afterwards, but they had a blast anyway. We parted way from our friends, and decided to stop at Olivia’s BFF, Bella’s, house to do some swimming at their apartment…got to make up for the lack of beach a little bit anyway. We went back to their place after swimming to watch some World Cup soccer (boooooring) and have some pizza for dinner. By the time we were finally home, it wasn’t long before the big girls were off to bed, and I couldn’t believe we had really been away from home all day. I’m pretty sure with Amelia we barely even left the house for the first 6 months, let alone spent an entire day out and about – such a huge relief!



















Until Next Week XOXO