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Sunday, November 16, 2014

2014 - Week 46

Well, as predicted, the week, Monday, started off with a nice big snow storm. Seriously, this is WAAAAY too early for all of this to be starting. And,  was super nervous for my first snowy drive in the van. It took me 2 hours to get to work. TWO HOURS (vs. my 25-30 minute commute). So gross. I just hate sitting in the car, in traffic, for that long. And even more, I HATE taking leave time, which I have so little of, for it. Oh winter, you can’t come this early! I also had to leave a little early, because you never know how traffic going home will be. My van was totally iced over when I got off work – just over a month and we’ll be parking in the ramp at work, and I seriously cannot wait. Luckily, traffic wasn’t too horrible going home, so I was able to stop at Walmart for a few things before I picked the girls up. As I was walking by the clothes (which, I don’t typically like from Walmart) I noticed fill racks of Christmas dresses. I fell IN LOVE with one dress, and they happened to have it in all 3 sizes we would need for the girls, so I jumped on it and bought them. I’m so excited – we’ve never really don’t the matching thing. The girls usually coordinate for Holiday’s, but they don’t actually match. I figured this will probably be the only time I can get something in all 3 sizes, so I couldn’t resist. I can’t wait to see them in it! After that excitement, I picked the girls up, we met Christian and baby at home…had some dinner and settled in for the night. Winter is here, it’s cold and snowy, but it’s a short week, so let’s go!

Tuesday was Veteran’s Day. Working for the government, I get the day off…YES! Christian was off to work, the girls were off to daycare, and I got the house to myself. TO MYSELF. ALL DAY LONG. I can’t even tell you how amazing that feels. If you haven’t gathered over the years, I adore my alone time. I love my family, but I ADORE my alone time. I think it mostly stems from being an only child, and never having an issue finding peace and quiet growing up. It became my calm…just being alone. While I’ve grown to appreciate (kind of) the chaos of our lives, I still long for my alone time. Days like this, I just relish in it. I decided to take myself completely off duty – no cleaning, no chores, no shopping, no kids, NOTHING, and I had myself a little Sons of Anarchy Season 6 marathon. One more mini-marathon and I’ll be done. Seriously, Netflix binge watching is the best thing ever. I was in a little bit of a rage over “Black Friday” today…Target and Walmart released their opening times, 6:00 and 5:00OPM THURSDAY. I mean, seriously, COME ON. While I do think it’s ridiculous to make retail workers give up their time with family (yes, I know police officers, nurses, doctors, etc. work – but to me, those professions are MUCH different than somebody working at Target likely to make ends meet), it bugs me mostly because Black Friday has just been ruined. Absolutely ruined. Years ago, Christian and I would get up early on Friday, get ready, stop somewhere for some breakfast, then hit up the mall and Target to do some shopping (some Christmas, a lot just for ourselves – ah, to be young and carefree again). It was busy and hectic everywhere, but it was a great day, something we really looked forward to. And now, as an adult with 3 kids and limited funds, I’d LOOOOOOVE to be able to take advantage of some of the deals. But, I can’t. I’m not giving up my Thanksgiving with my kids, my family, to go shopping  (especially with how greedy and out of control it’s become over the last couple of years). Yes, in the end, I usually get better than Black Friday deals shopping online, or shopping closer to Christmas, but still – I miss the essence of our fun day out together. Ugh – rant over. Outside of my annoyance and my SOA marathon, I picked the girls up, and our evening was pretty standard…dinner, baths, bed. Back to reality tomorrow.

She's so funny - she tries to eat all of the little pictures on the pillow.

On Wednesday, it is was beyond cold – it was like mid-January cold. I mean, I know I live in Minnesota and you just have to suck it up – it is what it is, but being this cold, this early, makes me really fearful for what’s in store this year. I was hoping for a winter we could actually leave our house during, but that doesn’t seem likely at this rate. Luckily, being Wednesday, it was work at home day, so no trekking to and from work! Between Monday’s drive, yesterday’s holiday, today’s working from home, and my flex day Friday, this is shaping up to be a pretty ideal week! I mean, the shorter the better! I seriously love my new schedule, as if I don’t say that every week. Outside of working and the cold, it was a pretty normal evening – picked the girls up, had some dinner and family time. The usual.

Trying to get a picture of Eliza is tough, Chuy always photobombs. She thinks he's hilarious. I never would've let him near the other girls, LOL - she's free game - joys of being baby #3!

Olivia drew this picture today. It took me a while to notice little Eliza clinging to me. Daddy is still pretty jealous that he doesn't make it into her pictures too often yet...

Well, I spoke too soon. Maybe the shorter the better is not so true. On Thursday, we were all off to work and school, as usual. In the late morning I got a call from the school nurse, and my heart always sinks when that happens. She said Olivia was in her office complaining of a headache, she had a slight fever, her eyes and ears were really red and she was complaining that her stomach hurt (OK, is there anything NOT wrong with her?!). I felt so bad for her; thinking of my poor baby stuck at school sick is just the worst. I finished up some tasks and made my way to school…I signed her out, went to her classroom to pick her up and she looked just miserable. Until we started heading down the hallway, to the parking lot, and she was just skipping along, happy as a clam. Oh man, I was so mad. I made her take a nap when we got home, and she did rest most of the day…randomly complaining that she still wasn’t feeling well, but, I did have a conversation with her. Reminded her that she only goes to the nurse when she REALLY doesn’t feel well…when she has a headache, when she feels like she’s going to throw up, when she’s really in pain. NOT because she thinks it’s cool, NOT because she’s tired, NOT because she just wants to be at home. I had to explain that Mommy and Daddy have to work, and we have very important things to do, so she can’t be at home unless she really needs to be. So, in the end, it’s really a mystery if she was actually sick or not. Hopefully tomorrow she’s feeling better, whatever was bothering her. Luckily, I was able to do a little work from home while she rested – so the afternoon wasn’t a complete loss. Christian picked up the other girls from daycare on his way home and we settled in for the night. We ended up bringing out the highchair tonight – we’ve been using the bebe pod chair – and I actually had hoped to just use that until she was big enough to sit in the booster chair, but her delicious leg rolls had other ideas, and she acted like the chair was trying to kill her, so highchair it is. My big girl, growing fast!

I finally hung up some new artwork at work today. I love being surrounded by reminders of the kids all day.

Trying out the highchair - big girl!

This weeks throwback - a comparison of me and my dopplegangers. Crazy!

Friday was my Friday off – YES! Eliza had her 6 month check up to start the day. Again, not with her actual pediatrician because LONG after I had scheduled her appointment he decided to take some vacation time. Ugh. So, we saw a new doctor. She was really nice though. I think I’m going to switch the other two to her – she’s at the clinic near our house, vs. way in the city for our usual doctor. I want Eliza to see him though for a couple years because we really like him. She is currently 87% for height and 73% for weight – so, she’s staying pretty steady in her growth. She did end up getting 4 shots today – which is just cruel. Poor baby! She got 3 vaccinations and her first dose of the flu shot. I thought she was going to be pretty crabby all night, but she actually slept for quite some time once we got home. While she slept, I got lots of little chores done. I broke my glasses last night…I have a tendency to climb into bed at night with my glasses on, then I’m too exhausted to turn over and put them on my nightstand, so I just lay them on the bed. Well, in Eliza’s refusal to sleep last night, I put my elbow right through my glasses when I went to support myself to sit up. UGH! Well, I wasn’t going go years wearing broken glasses again, so I right away hopped on zenni this morning and ordered a new pair. I also ordered some new contacts as my trial pair is getting pretty old now. I paid some bills, balanced our budget, watched some shows – finishing up Sons of Anarchy (now the painful wait for the final season to show up on Netflix). The usual. While Eliza did take a nice long nap, she was pretty cranky the rest of the day. Poor baby. So, other than picking up the big girls in the evening, we had a pretty quiet afternoon/night.

Ready for her checkup!

Bestfriends!

On Saturday, Christian had to work most of the day. Eliza was SUPER crabby today, the big girts were at eachothers’ throats all day long – just driving each other insane and fighting about everything. I had a pounding headache. It was just a rough, miserable day. After a long battle, I finally got Eliza down for a nap…and she ended up napping for SIX HOURS! Whoa, I’ve never heard of such a thing. My headache sure thanked her, but I did have to keep checking in on her, I couldn’t believe it. Amelia also took a nice nap, while I let Olivia skip hers and relax on the couch. I showered, took some medicine and rested as much as I could. Christian arrived home from work, showered himself, and when the girls woke up I was feeling much better – so, we were all off to the Sprint store. We have been needing new phones for quite some time, and had decided to leave T-mobile. After researching AT&T, Verizon and Sprint, we decided Sprint was right for us (for what we want)…so, even though we had a horrible experience with them years ago, we took a chance and switched to them. We remain rivals, as Christian went with the iPhone 6 and I went with the Galaxy S5. Oh my gosh, we LOVE them! There’s just something so exciting about getting new phones, I don’t know what it is. Christian’s friend Lorenzo ended up meetings us for dinner at Applebee’s afterwards, so we ate and chatted and hung out before heading home for the night. The girls were off to bed and we watched a little TV before passing out. What a day!

Sunday did not start off well…it actually started off with Eliza throwing up ALL over me. So gross. It was early, and still dark out, and I was getting a very early start on laundry as our bedding was just covered. ICK!! I got her back to sleep and rested on the couch while laundry was going, until the other two woke up. Throughout the day, we noticed Eliza was breaking out in a strange, mysterious rash. Between feedings and dealing with her crankiness, I tried to get the basement cleaned up. It wasn’t going well though – so I again succumb to the decision to just leave it a mess for now. I made a quick run to the grocery store, and Eliza continued breaking out and acting very unlike herself. We’d never seen anything like it before – it almost looked like chicken pox (though we knew it wasn’t). We were starting to worry it might be a vaccine reaction, so we decided it would be best to have Christian take the girls to swim class while I take her to urgent care to be checked out. I’m not a fan of urgent care for the kids – it just seems like they never know what they’re doing. The doctor checked her out…all of her vitals were normal, she had only a slight fever and she had never seen a rash quite like it before. She did some research on the vaccines she had gotten on Friday and a rash, like this, was not a known side effect of any of them. She was pretty sure it was just viral, but said to keep an eye on it and if it wasn’t starting to get better by Tuesday or Wednesday to have her seen again. Seriously – leaving the doctor, with a sick baby, with a crazy mysterious rash and no answers was really frustrating. But, it was slightly comforting to know it wasn’t anything serious. I got home before the rest of the house, so I started dinner. We ate, I finished some laundry and man I was exhausted. Another week down!

The rash Eliza was breaking out in, kind of hard to see though.


Until Next Week! XOXO