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Sunday, June 26, 2016

2016 - Week 26

Well, it's official folks. There is no way for me to possibly keep up with this blog anymore. I've fallen so behind, and life is so chaotic, it's just not in the cards anymore. But, I am going to try to at least keep up with posting photos - which, was the original intent of this "project". Since most of our days seem pretty much the same at this point, and they all kind of run together, a lot of the days sound pretty much the same anyway!

So, here's my first week of "just photos" posts.

My baby, taking care of her babies!

Amelia's Family Portrait! I love that girl.

A Night at the Ballfield
















35 Weeks, 5 Days - Getting Closer!

It's the Final Countdown

The Baby is the Size of our Dog - LOL

Christian was going for MAJOR Brownie Points today!

Just Another Day in Paradise

Game Day - Our Annual Family Reunion of Sorts on my Dad's Side
















BBQ at the In-Laws'




Until Next Week! XOXO

Sunday, June 19, 2016

2016 - Week 25

Week 25 – the new YMCA program, lots of hot weather, some softball, Father’s Day and poor Amelia hit with some horrible illness. What a week!

On Monday, we were up and at it. I really need to work on actually getting up when my alarm clock goes off. Instead, I apparently really like to run around in a crazy panic every morning. So, I was up and ready, got the girls ready and packed up, and dropped the big girls off for their first day at the YMCA. I had to learn the sign-in process and figure out where everything is, so I was running even more behind. They were a little nervous, but thankfully one of their little friends was there already. And, luckily it’s Monday, so Christian was dropping Eliza off. I finally settled into work for a long busy day. Christian picked the big girls up, I picked Eliza up, and we all met up at home to have a quick dinner before softball. Olivia played 2nd and 1st base tonight – and she seriously rocked it at 1st! Amelia played pitcher and 2nd base – she did well, when she actually paid attention. We still need to work on that. Christian left for work, and the girls and I made our way home for a quiet night. I did FINALLY get my new debit card today (the card was canceled for fraudulent activity a couple weeks ago). I feel like I can finally function again!

Put Me In Coach!

I Love These Girls

Tuesday was my first day of two drop-off’s. That is NOT going to be fun, or easy. I got up, packed lunches, got the girls up and ready, and we were off. I had an early appointment, so I wasn’t quite as rushed today. I dropped Eliza off, dropped the big girls off, realized I left my cell phone at home, so I had to stop back there to pick it up, then had to rush off to my appointment. I had a growth scan and biophysical scan on tap today. Baby is still measuring big, 6lbs3ozs, 87%. Not great, but a lower percentage than last time, so that’s good. My fluid level was stop on the low side, otherwise we passed the BPP with flying colors. FINALLY, I was off to work for a busy, chaotic day. The chaos is stressful, but the days fly by, so that’s worth it. After work, I picked the big girls up, picked Eliza up, and we settled in at home. I finished making dinner, while Christian showered and got ready for work. We ate, cleaned up, and Christian was off to work. The girls played for a while, watched videos for a while, and everybody was off to bed. I was SOOOOO hot and miserable…even though we got lots of rain, and the temperature dropped, it was so hot in the house. Seriously, MISERABLE!

Look at this cute foot! He's always in the same position, Always has this foot sticking out.

Wednesday was another pretty standard day. Up, ready, lunches packed, girls up and ready, drop-off’s, and off to work. At this point, I’m pretty sure I won’t be able to get a handle on everything  before I go on Maternity Leave. I pretty much already told my boss that I’ll be late every day, and I’ll just make the time up to cover my butt. One bright spot in the day, we did have our quarterly service award celebration at work, and my 15 year anniversary is this quarter, so I got to be part of the celebration. YAY!! 15 years, whoa! After that, I was working the day away, when I got a call from the YMCA about Amelia. She was having a rough day…crying, complaining that her ear hurt, acting like she was in a lot of pain. So, I left early to pick them up, and we went right to the MinuteClinic to get her checked out. First week at the YMCA, and already making a great impression. Thankfully, we got right in to be seen. However, the doctor said that while her ear is red and irritated, it’s not quite an infection yet. Because of the over-prescribing of antibiotics nowadays, she didn’t want to jump right to one. She gave us a “wait and see” prescription, to fill if it gets worse or if she spikes a fever, and sent us on our way. I debated just filling it to get it over with, but took her advice and waited. We went home to relax for a while and I gave her some pain medication, we rested, got ready for softball and had a quick dinner before picking Eliza up and heading to softball. The girls did really nice, and this is by far the best coach they have ever had. He’s so patient with the kids, but still stern and not afraid to tell them when they’re acting up. He really knows what he’s doing, and the girls are learning so much from him. Christian left the game for work, and we made our way home for showers for the big girls, before getting everybody settled in and off to bed. I was so sore tonight, I wanted to take a nice, long, warm Epsom salt bath after getting the girls to bed until I realized Christian did not clean up the bath toys after Eliza’s last bath. I was so annoyed and way too tired to deal with it, so I skipped my bath. I was quite bitter about it too.

Finally got the girls' Softball Pictures Back. Love!




34 Weeks 5 Days - getting there!

On Thursday, we woke up after a rough night for Amelia. She still didn’t have a fever, but she woke up a couple times crying and was still complaining about her ear hurting. Poor thing. I got everybody up and ready to go, and gave her some medicine again. I’ve still been getting to work at about the same time, which is late, and nothing I do seems to speed that up. I’m pretty much given up for now, but I’m going to have to figure something out when I return from Maternity Leave, and get my stuff together. With how Amelia has been feeling, I decided to just go ahead and fill her prescription. As I was preparing to do so, I realized the prescription was for Amoxicillin…which she is allergic to. Which I apparently totally forgot when the doctor asked me if she has any allergies, and now had no idea what to do about it. I also remembered that the audiologist wanted me to right away call an ENT the next time she gets an ear infection, which I did not do. Feeling like a total failure. I basically can’t remember anything to save my life any more. On top of that, work is still so insane, I feel like I can’t ever catch breath. To make that worse, I got a call from the clinic after my OB finally got a chance to read my latest biophysical scan.  Apparently because of my fluctuating fluid levels, she now wants me to get them done twice a week now, instead of once, so I have to go to the clinic even more often. They only had one opening left this week, which was this afternoon. I basically had to rush right over to the clinic after the phone call to get there. He passed everything, except that my fluid levels were down even more. They want the levels to be between 5-12, 8-12 is ideal. On Tuesday, it was at a 6.5, and today, it was down to 4.2. I started to panic a little, and thought for sure they would send me over to the hospital for monitoring and fluids. Thankfully, after the ultrasound tech consulted with the OB, they decided to just let me go home, rest, and drink as much water as possible. Resting is a bit of a joke, but I have to try to do everything I can, I CANNOT end up on bed rest! My next scan is on Tuesday, unless they call and change anything before then. I made my way back to work to finish out the day, a little emotional about everything, but survive. I battle some seriously terrible traffic on my way to pick the big girls up. When I got to daycare, Amelia had a complete breakdown, started bawling, and apparently had a very rough afternoon with her ear. So, I called the clinic to see if there was anything they could do to change the prescription I had been given. Of course, the doctor that we saw yesterday was not there today, so they gave me a complete run around, and could not give me an answer right away. We went home, Christian made dinner and had to leave early for work. Of course, as soon as he left, the clinic called and OK’d the change. So, I had to pack everybody up and rush off to the clinic to get it filled. We finally got home, the girls took their showers and bath (which I had to fight them to do, because it was wacky hair day). The one highlight of my day is that Christian took my not so subtle complaints to heart yesterday and cleaned out the bath tub. So, not only could I give Eliza a bath, but I got to take my bath tonight!!! And, it was exactly what I needed. So much for the rest, but we’ll try again tomorrow! Thankfully Christian will be home tomorrow, night, and then it’s the weekend, so I should be able to get a little more rest than usual.

Friday FINALLY arrived. Amelia woke up like a whole new kid this morning, THANK GOD!!! I still gave her some ibuprofen this morning, just in case. I got everybody else up, we all finished getting ready, I dropped the big girls off at daycare and Eliza off at my mom’s, and made my way into work. After yesterday’s issues, I mentioned everything to my boss, and we decided to meet today with my team leader to check in on where all of my work was at, and take care of any final “information sharing” that needed to be done, just in case I end up on bedrest or he decides to come a little early. Shortly after our meeting, I ended up getting a call from the clinic, again, and because of my low levels yesterday, they wanted me in for a non-stress test. So, again, I rushed off for that. The baby was stable, and moving quite a bit which, I could tell), so that was good. I actually registered a few contractions while I was on the monitor too, so hopefully that means things are at least progressing a little. Maybe I will end up going a little early after all. In the end, everything looked good, and they sent me on my way. I finished out the work day, picked Eliza up, picked the big girls up, and we settled in at home for the night. Amelia seems to be doing MUCH better, and really didn’t have any issues tonight, thankfully. The girls swam in the pool for a while, we had dinner, and had a pretty quiet night. I was seriously exhausted after all of the chaos and stress this week, and ended up falling asleep for the night around 8:00. I’ve been trying to chug the water as much as humanly possible, and I’ll be resting as much as possible this weekend, so hopefully Tuesday’s scan will be much better!

Saturday kicked off a SUPER hot weekend. Even with the air on, it was still so hot in the house. I literally had to sit on the AC vent a few times to cool off! Eliza was up pretty early this morning, and woke up with a bloody nose. ALL OVER HER BED! So, I got to clean that up and strip her bed. I hung out with her until everybody else was up, we watched some movies and relaxed and a while. The girls were in and out of the house all da long…playing, swimming, running around, watching videos. The usual. Christian cut the grass and cleaned up the garage a little, and I finally showered, got ready, and ran to Target. I had to get a birthday gift, a Father’s Day gift, and a few groceries. Once home, I wrapped the birthday gift, got the big girls ready, and dropped them off at their friend, Rio’s, birthday party. It was the first time I’ve ever just dropped them off, and it made me a total wreck all day long. I’m not so worried about them being watched and taken care of…it’s more, I worry about how they’ll behave, and worry about them fighting non-stop. So, I was quite nervous about it. Eliza, Christian and I ended up going over to our friends house to swim while they were at the party (like, in a pool that I could actually get into). I was nervous about that too, as I don’t have a maternity swimsuit, but thankfully my regular suit fit pretty well. It felt SO amazing to be in the pool too. To feel weightless for a while was a serious blessing. Getting out, I felt like I weight a ton, but it was still worth it. It took a while to convince Eliza to go in the pool, but she finally did, and she loved it! After swimming, I dropped them off at home, and was off to pick the big girls up. I visited with Rio’s mom, Misty, for a while, before packing them into the can and heading home. We stopped at Walmart to get some grilling goodies and made our way home to grill and relax for a while. Everybody was off to bed, Christian watched the soccer game for a while, and I finally called it a night. Not a complete day of relaxation, but much more relaxing than usual.






Late night cuddles with all of my loves.


Sunday was Father’s Day. And it was HOOOOOOOOT outside. We were all up and at it pretty early. Again, while I am supposed to be off my feet as much as possible, I didn’t want to me a total jerk on Father’s Day, so I got up and made a big, delicious breakfast. YUM!!!! I did a little cleaning up, and we all made our way outside. Christian and the girls swam the hot morning away, even Eliza got in the pool for a bit! And, I soaked it up with  my feet in the kiddie pool. Let the good times roll. Once I was sufficiently sweaty and way too hot, I made my way inside, with little Eliza following behind.  We played for a while, and she ended up passing out sitting next to me on the couch. My little love. While we planned to have my in-laws over for a Father’s Day BBQ, as we’ve done for the last several years, they backed out at the last minute. So, I quick called my dad up, and the girls and I went over to visit for a while, while Christian just stopped over to his parents’ for a short visit. Anytime I can get out of having people over/having to clean up, AND I actually get to see my dad on Father’s Day for a change, works for me! We all met back up at home and relaxed for a while before the big girls hopped back in the pool for a while with Bella, and I relaxed in the house. We finally got the girls all settled into bed, Christian went out for a beer and dinner with Lorenzo, while I put in a few hours of work, to make up for my appointments last week. With my leave time slowly depleting, and so many appointments to come, this will likely be my Sunday ritual for the next few weeks.

YUM!!








My Daddy with my Babies.

Until Next Week! XOXO

Sunday, June 12, 2016

2016 - Week 24

Week 24, almost officially halfway through the year. This week brought some big events…the big girls’ last day of school, my 33rd birthday, the big girls’ last day at KinderCare and some time preparing them for their first day in the YMCA program.

On Monday, we kicked off the week. I was up and ready, got the big girls up and ready, and dropped them off at daycare. Christian is back to bringing Eliza to his parents’ in the morning, which is seriously a relief. Work continues to be insane. I feel like I’ve been in this “where do I begin” phase for so long, it just seems to be my new normal. This are definitely going to be rough for the rest of the office when I’m gone, that’s for sure. Around lunchtime, a massive bought of nausea hit me, and it was so terrible. I haven’t been that sick in a LONG time, and it made for a pretty miserable afternoon. Thankfully I was able to power through, finish out the day, pick up Eliza and make my way home. We had take-out for dinner, got the girls ready for softball, and made our way to the field. It was raining on and off all afternoon, but luckily cleared up before the game started. Olivia played 1st base and caught on pretty quickly. Amelia played short stop and actually had a couple of balls hit to her…she even made a really great play. Again, they were only able to play 2 innings, and again, they worked on batting instead of playing outfield. But, it seems to be working, because they do seem to be catching onto everything. Christian left early for work, and the girls and I made our way home after the game. They played a bit, watched a video, and were off to bed. I relaxed and finished bingeing “East Los High” on Hulu (yes, it’s basically a teen, Mexican soap opera, but I love it) and passed out.

On Tuesday, I woke up from a terrible night of sleep, and had another attach of 1st trimester nausea. Ended up throwing up from brushing my teeth – bringing back so many wonderful memories. Seriously, I feel like I’m going backwards all of a sudden. I finally pulled myself together, finished getting ready, and got the girls up and ready. I dropped them off an put in some work before heading off to my latest check-up. I actually had a totally normal blood pressure, 114/76, which is seriously amazing, and unheard of. Still no weight gain, which is also a huge relief. We talked about post-birth birth control options for a while, and I’m pretty confused about what I/we should do. Last summer we were finally all set on Christian getting the big snip. He had a physical, where they noticed how poorly a previous ear surgery he had healed. The doctor didn’t believe Christian was a good candidate because if his poor surgical healing. In addition, it’s when they noticed the lump in his chest, requiring testing and surgery. Not only did that delay the snipping process (resulting in this pregnancy’s possibility), but now seeing the way that surgery has healed so poorly as well, we’re thinking it’s not a good idea for him to have surgery in such a…ahem…sensitive area. I’m not comfortable going back on anything hormonal anymore at my age, and after years of it, and we need something permanent. It doesn’t sound like I’ll be a good candidate to have tubal done right after the baby is born (unless of course for some reason I need a c-section), which means I’ll have to do it after the fact. She talked about how vasectomy’s are more successful, less invasive and have a quicker recovery – but, I just don’t think it’s in the cards for us. So, now I’m nervous about the tubal – both the procedure, and the effectiveness. No fun. After the talk, we listened to the baby, and scheduled my weekly bio-physical scans for the rest of the pregnancy. Finally, I made my way back to work to finish out the day. I had a pretty productive day, but, man a I SOOOOOO exhausted! Traffic was terrible getting home, so Christian made dinner while I made the slow commute, and picked Eliza up. We ate, Christian was off to work, the girls played outside for a while, and I made their “last day of school” chalkboards before sending everybody off to bed. I can’t believe my baby’s are all done with Kindergarten and 1st Grade! They grow way too fast!

After Sunday's trip to Grand Ol' Day, today I got a little throwback to our first trip there with Olivia (just a bit before Amelia was born)

Up, show Wednesday I was up a little early to shower and get ready, and get the big girls up and ready to take their last day of school pictures, before waking up the little Tasmanian Devil. Finally, I got Eliza up and ready, dropped them all off at daycare and got to sit in the later morning traffic into work. Another long, slow, terrible drive. I spent the day plowing away at my inbox, and before I knew it, it was time to pick Eliza up, get the big girls ready, and make our way to softball. All of the girls were clearly dragging today after their exciting last day of school, and a little distracted, but we all survived. I have to say…our team is by far the best in our little league. It’s pretty exciting since they’ve both pretty much been on the worst teams since they started playing sports. I feel like they’re really, finally learning, which makes me very excited. Christian was off to work, so the girls and I settled in at home, watched a little TV, they took their baths and everybody was off to bed. It’s officially summer vacation!!

33 Weeks, 5 Days. Woot!











Thursday was overall a pretty typical, boring, standard Thursday. Daycare, work (work, work, work), home…dinner, Christian to work, some play time, and everybody to bed. Now, this is my kind of day!

Such a cutie!

Friday was the big day…MY BIRTHDAY! The big 3-3! That seems so crazy. I feel like it wasn’t that long ago that I thought 33 was SOOOOOOO old. Now, here I am. Dangerously close to my mid-30’s. To top that off, it was my Friday off work, which basically makes it the best birthday ever. Today also marked the big girls’ last day at KinderCare…which was unusually emotional for me. They started there 4½ years ago, which was SUCH a hard day for me. Before that, they had never been cared for by anybody but us or our parents, so the thought of leaving them with complete strangers was so overwhelming. They looked so scared and nervous that day, and I think I cried more than they did. Now, they are saying goodbye to so many friends, and to teachers who treat us like family. Our week of big lasts continued. The rest of the day, I spent with Eliza. We had breakfast, hung out around the house, and met my dad and stepmom for birthday lunch. Proof that I’m a full-fledged adult was solidified when they gave me a birthday gift full of stuff that was actually for the baby. Meanwhile, Christian ended up staying up for the day, and he and his friend, Lorenzo, started filling up the pool. They had to do a little leveling to the ground (which we later found out was still not quite level), set up the tarp and get the pool in position, and then it filled the rest of the day. Eliza fell asleep at lunch, and went down for a nap when I dropped her off at home. While she slept, I was off on my next adventure…the DMV!!! Procrastination at its finest, my license renewal was due. The DMV was a total madhouse, filled with the most obnoxious children I’ve ever been around in my life. The place was seriously packed, and not one single person would get up to let my obviously VERY pregnancy self sit down. I managed to keep my hormones in check, but it was tough. They finally called my number, I paid my fee, I took my picture, and I booked it home. Next up, I sent Christian on a Facebook sale purchase, to pick up a dresser (with a changing pad and covers!) for super cheap, for the baby. He’ll be rooming with us for a while, and I didn’t think we’d be able to afford a dresser, so this came at the perfect time, because I had no idea what we were going to do with all of his clothes and blankets and stuff. He picked the girls up from daycare, grabbed some carne asada to grill for dinner, and they gave me a new “boy” charm for my bracelet. Christian made dinner, and we all settled in for the night. Overall, it was a pretty interesting, pretty great birthday.

First and Last Day at KinderCare. Wowza!

Baby's New Dresser and My New Charm. Happy Birthday!

I spent most of Saturday doing some cleaning and picking up around the house. Nothing too strenuous, just making it not so tornado-like. Meanwhile, the girls played outside for a while and got to swim for the first time this summer (and, I was SOOOOOOO jealous, I can’t even tell you how jealous). While the girls were playing and swimming and running around, Christian was did some work in the yard and the garage. I eventually called it quits on cleaning, and watched some TV, including a Netflix movie, “A Girl Like Her”, which makes me really, REALLY wish that I could keep my girls from growing up. Seriously, if you have young girls, don’t watch it. I ended up selling Christian off on another Facebook sale, to pick up a really cheap swing for the baby (which, again, I didn’t think we’d be able to get, so YAY!). So, he was off to Menards, and to pick that up, before heading out for a few drinks with Lorenzo, while I got the girls into bed, and watched some shows before bed.

First Swim Day!

Baby's New Swing. Such a Steal!

I love when she just passes out on the living room floor. There's something so peaceful about it.

Sunday came all too fast, like usual. And, it was a busy day around the house. I finally finished  laundry, well, I ended the day with one last basket of clothes to put away. But, I still call it a success. We had breakfast, and I did some more cleaning around the house. We put together the baby’s Rock and Play, moved the dresser into our room, and I got “his corner” of our room ready. Slowly but surely, we’re getting ready for this guy! The big girls swam on and off all day – Eliza is still pretty leery about going in the water. So, she and I watched some TV and played together. I went on a big Target run in the morning, even washed some fruits and veggies and started getting food ready for the Y program this week. One big downside to the new program is that they don’t provide food and snacks…so, I need to have them eat something before we leave, send morning and afternoon snacks, a lunch with a beverage, and a water bottle. Ugh – this has seriously stressed me out for weeks. But, after doing some shopping and planning, I think we just might survive. Finally, we had dinner, the girls took their baths, we hung out for a while, and the girls were off to bed. Christian planted the new trellis (for the zucchini) and started sanding a new bench my mom picked up for us at a garage sale, while I had a nice quiet end to the day/week. Eliza was seriously fighting her sleep but thankfully, Christian happened to be inside and was able to deal with it…this preggo needed sleep!

Hugs for Kitty!

Baby's Corner, Coming Together

Bathing Beauties. Living the Life.


Until Next Week! XOXO